Thinkbubble: “She’s probably just being nice” Drawing of two people with long hair and boobs kissing one laying on the other. The thinking dots connect to both.
Gonna say as someone who has had sex so as not to hurt the other person’s feelings and then felt like shit right after, and then became paranoid other relationships are doing the same thing- this hits hard.
Pity fucks aren’t good for anyone
You ever start replying to disagree with a comment and then realize the things you’ve normalized in your romantic past are a bit fucked up? That’s where I’m at right now
I’ve had sex plenty of times I didn’t really want to in the past. It goes like
She’s horny and wants to fuck. I am not
If I say no it’s a self esteem meltdown
If I say yes it’s a bit of a workout that ends in cuddling, which I always want
It’s just always felt better for my life to be an on demand dick machine than somebody who can say no