There was a time in my life when me and partner lived far away from each other. I would visit as often as I could but the trip was long and tiresome and we inadvertantly discovered we would mess with each other during the night.
Sleeping naked made things easier and either one of us would reach for the other and in our sleep/exhausted state we would get aroused enough that when things came to a head, both of us were willing and ready.
It would always end (still does; bragging moment!) in very slow and sensuous love making, just on that very narrow border between dreaming and being awake.
We’re always relaxed and very in tune with each other when that happens and it usually happens when we are more stressed and have less time to be together. Sometimes the body just takes over and searches the other.
Ever happened to you?
I can easily related to that. Sex is multi dimensional for me, so sounds, smells, sensations, all come into play to make a really enjoyable session.
But those times when it seems like it’s the body and instinct taking over… it’s a completely different thing.