• rabber@lemmy.caEnglish
    3·
    4 days ago

    being attracted to someone and then finding out they were once biologically male

    Also valid I think. I’m looking for a woman who wants to have kids with me so it would really suck for both parties and I would prefer to avoid that awkward situation altogether. That could end up being straight up traumatic for either person

      • rabber@lemmy.caEnglish
        1·
        4 days ago

        I mean that sounds good on paper but saying you want to have children in the initial stage of a relationship is probably a red flag lol

        • Nat (she/they)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
          2·
          3 days ago

          So is feeling violated at someone not telling you beforehand they’re trans. I’d feel a lot worse with you doing that than asking if I’m fertile.