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Cake day: July 25th, 2023

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  • Taiwan has paid time off for mothers(not dad’s). Usually a month or so. There are no housing benefits in Taiwan that I know of. The incentive is def a small portion of how much a child costs, but it’s not a little. I get like 8000nt a month directly deposited into my account. I also get schooling incentives. It is basically free cash that pays around 25% of my child’s schooling/daycare.

    China has a brutal 996 culture if you’re lucky to even have a job. Nobody is going to start making babies when a VERY large % of your young population is unemployed.


  • I hate to do this, but I feel like Taiwan(numba 1) is doing this better than China(numba 4).

    The Taiwan government is literally giving money to have kids. The more kids you have, the more monthly cash they give you. I think our president said something along the lines of “it’s up to our country to take care of all children of Taiwan”. I’m paraphrasing.

    Not just cash, we also have infrastructure setup. Most malls, government buildings and public places have breastfeeding rooms. There is almost always a bathroom designated for people with children. There are even bathrooms set up with small tiny toilets. There is a designated area for kids to sit on the train. There are designated elevators for kids.

    Plus healthcare is free/cheap so that helps.

    If China wants more babies, it needs to start giving the people things that promote having kids. Unless you force them to have kids… I guess because you can. Fuck the CCP.




  • This is my setup using the 3, 2, 1 rule:

    3: Raid 5 setup with 2 unused drives and setup to automatically spool up and recover if one of the drives starts failing. 2: off-site at the father in laws house (using a Xpenology super tiny PC and an external drive) 1: Monthly Backblaze

    While there is risk, it’s def safer if not safer than Google drive.



  • Don’t get me wrong Mario land was great. But just weird shit drove us mad even inside a family friendly place like Universal Studios.

    We had a friend with us that had a 3 year old girl with them. The airline lost their stroller(this was an major ordeal, nobody spoke English at the airports there)so they decided to rent from Universal Studio instead.

    First of all, the person who was attending the stroller section didn’t speak a lick of English. Fine. Whatever. We used Google translate. He asked us how old the girl was and I said 3 years old.

    The next question was
    "Is it her birthday? "…

    Us: ummmm, no. That was a month ago.

    They immediately said: "No rent to you. "

    Wtf dude. Why?!?! Because the rules are 3 years old or younger. That means less than 36 months, not less than 48 months.

    Just random shit like that seems the norm for the Japanese.


  • Visited Japan(Osaka) recently with my 5 year old son. While there is infrastructure setup for people with kids such as stroller only elevators, kids/elder section on the train, nobody, I mean, nobody followed the rules. Regularly the stroller only elevators were full and nobody got out. Or able body adults didn’t even glance up to let my sleepy child sit in the kids designated seats.

    There were glares at us when my son was having a hard time, almost like we were inconveniencing them.

    In my week-long experience there, people in general are not tolerated for children. No wonder nobody wants kids. I wouldn’t want to if I was treated that way.









  • Fortunately my wife speaks the language and was able to get around ok.

    The single visit was unimpressive as a parent.

    I think it mostly stems from the attitude they gave my son and the unwillingness to not occupy the kids/elderly seats on the train.

    There was also a situation when we were at the airport and the wind was so intense that it blew my son’s stroller over along with all our luggage. My son was rolling towards the street. 3 Japanese men stood behind us and stared. 2 of them laughed before proceeding past us without a hint of helping. In America, all 3 men would have helped. In Taiwan they would have done the same thing. I have a video of it since I was taking a time lapse on my 360 camera if you feel it’s not enough proof.

    Also, Women often have to give up their careers and be the primary child bearing person when she becomes a mother. Fathers are not required to give up their jobs. Video shown here. https://youtu.be/QNbabCMTFzw?si=hzanmej9l7ECCMgN


  • It certainly contributes to it. I later found out that this culture is not just specific to strangers but even family members. My mother in law fights to watch my kid. They want to spend time with their grandson and enjoy his company. In Japan, grandparents do not watch grandkids. They sort of have a “you brought it into this world, you take care of it” mentality.

    Also the 996 work culture and the females complete dedication to the kids(they must quit their job and only focus on the kids). Even the dad’s don’t take equal weight in child bearing.

    I was in Universal Studios and was walking from the parking lot back to our car we saw a couple of kids passed out being carried on the moms back, the oldest kid we saw was probably 7 years old. This petite mom was clearly struggling while the dad was empty handed, not even a backpack on.

    The family eventually stopped to readjust. I’m thinking the dad was going to carry the kid the rest of the way… Nope… The dad helped move the kid to the front side of the mom. Dad, still empty handed. Still carrying nothing.

    Japan is a terrible place for a family. It’s built into the culture. It’s part of the country’s mentality. They will be extinct very soon.