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  • i’m sure the first one was the plausible deniability the husband set up… but still if they never met her beforehand, there’s no way they can pretend like they thought is was consensual….
    and even if it was, i can’t imagine anyone who isn’t at least a latent rapist would go through with that….
    i hate to “kink shame” but serial killers often start off with “consensual non consent” and bdsm… if that really gets you off and you indulge in it, there’s a very thin line between that person and an actual predator.

    like, some of that stuff is perfectly fine, but the idea of meeting a man with a drugged unconscious woman and just taking his word that everything is fine and with her knowing, is just absurd…
    ….
    i do hope that rape jokes will go the way of racist jokes… i mean, they usually aren’t considered acceptable…




  • Police were only able to identify 50 suspects out of the 83 that appeared in Dominique Pelicot’s videos.

    Their ages range from 26 to 68 and they hail from all walks of life - firefighters, pharmacists, labourers and journalists. Many are fathers and husbands.

    Of the other men accused, 15 admit rape, but all the others admit only to taking part in sexual acts.

    how the fuck did he find 83 other rapists? is there a rapist website where they meet up?
    a rape club?
    is it just common that men are willing to do that?
    i can accept that occasionally a person’s mind will break and they’ll do evil things… or will in some twisted dictatorship… but when teams of evil people form i start to feel very jaded about humanity….







  • such a weird world… i say, like what you like… don’t obsess or fetishize it…
    i’ve dated some extra short women, they did marvel at my height but it was more of a novelty… standing on things to kiss kinda thing…. it is weird being someone’s “type” because of a couple key physical attributes.

    but almost all women seem really short to me… i usually don’t really notice at first.


  • i just think it’s not that important if a girl is taller than a guy (or anyone) they’re dating….
    it’s a weird world i don’t know why people make such a big deal about these things….

    i guess i have been told by women that they feel surprisingly safe walking next to me on the street, and that it’s a big relief….
    maybe it all comes down to instinctual security?




  • it’s sort of a toxic masculinity thing… they want to be shorter than the person they’re with…. male roles of protection, reaching high things and carrying heavy things they can’t carry….
    my 5’10” ex dated a shorter man once, she said his obsession with her height was one thing that ruined it….
    he hated tall guys, wanted to sleep on top of her like a human bed… just weird dumb stuff….
    she also mentioned she liked that she could wear heels with me and not be taller than me… and we never got dressed up like that… she just needed the option or something.
    but hey, i’ve never even met a woman as tall as me… it’s not such a big deal.