I’m a bit lost here, to be fair. I went full no contact with my family back when I was 16. Took a hike, even across countries. So, apparently what happened, was my ex brother in law not keeping his mouth shut and sharing my number with my family. I still can’t make heads or tails of it. But now my dad wants to be real chummy and friendy with me? Fuck that, honestly. I’m not super mad at him, more at the rest of my family, but it seriously hurts right now. What am I supposed to do? I’m at a loss here. Haven’t really talked to the person for over 21 years.
“More at the rest of the family”
If you’re not mad at him that make that clear.
“Yo I’m NC with the family. Not mad at you and if you can STFU I’m willing to consider a discussion. But I’m doing this for you, not for me. What do you want?”