• KillingTimeItself@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      8 days ago

      to better analogize this, you’re hanging around a nazi rally trying to find friends, and people keep calling you a nazi for some reason.

      Weird.

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          It literally does though. I stopped telling people that I use Lemmy as a result. When some instance defederates from ML and establishes itself as being solid, I’d love to tell people irl that I use that.

          If you are trying to say not to paint people with too broad of a brush, I get it, but also, we don’t get to choose how others think of us, only what we will do in response.

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          It’s a metaphor since tankies don’t seem to exist or make a difference in real life

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      i’ve created this alt in the interim of finding a more permanent instance residence. Just got exhausted by the massive amount of shit they peddled over there.

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        Lemmy.sdf.org is a good one with a “very light touch” attitude towards defederating instances of what you’re interested in

        Sh.itjust.works is also a good one with great admins I’ve heard (and also funny name)

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            I’ve seen people say this, but haven’t actually seen it outside of one asshat who picked a fight with Beehaw a year+ ago.

            As a user I’ve had a pretty great experience personally.

            • Possibly linux@lemmy.zip
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              I’ve just heard from other mods that it can be a source of problems

              Could be the case of a vocal minority. The biggest complaints I have scene is that the instance admins allow whatever

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        TODO: pedal vs peddle.

        I bet there’s not a gratuitous amount of bicycling going on over in .ml land, but I could be mistaken.

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      There are a few tankies on other instances. The difference is that they get in trouble when they act out.