Summary

Laura Caron, a New Jersey elementary school teacher, faces multiple sexual assault charges for grooming and abusing a 13-year-old student.

The allegations claim Caron, who befriended the student’s mother, molested the boy from age 11 to 16, including conceiving and giving birth to his child in 2019.

The case came to light after the victim’s father posted about the uncanny resemblance between Caron’s son and his own.

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    Can we finally give up the whole “I wish I had a hot teacher who would have sex with me when I was his age” thing? Because I have heard some asshole say something like that every time a story like this comes out. Always with a female teacher and a male child, of course.

    This is rape. Every single time.

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    Oh, ok. She must not have raped him otherwise the article would have said so, right?

    Just a little molestation that resulted in a pregnancy. Not rape, though.

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    And this is why I’ve raised my children to never to unconditionally trust people in a position of power, including even family. We had “the talk” early, made it abundantly clear what kind of behavior from an adult is never okay, watch interactions they have with people like a hawk, and check-in enough to know they are safe.

    We don’t have to live life afraid, but we mustn’t ignore that predators can be anywhere and look like anyone.

    I feel so terrible for this child and his siblings. The problems in their lives didn’t begin with this rapist.

    Life shouldn’t have to be this way. 😭

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    Why is the word “paedophile” not in that article? Can women not be nonces? I thought we had equality now.

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    The case came to light after the victim’s father posted about the uncanny resemblance between Caron’s son and his own.

    There must be some strong genes for the victim’s father to make that claim

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    I suppose I just don’t get it. She seems to be good looking. She could easily have an adult male with the mentality of a teenager, we know there are plenty of them. All I can see is opportunity/ease of access. Even the power dynamic would be the same with plenty of adult guys desperate to get laid.

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        Why is the sky blue? Because it is blue, I don’t really understand the confusion.
        Pedophile is a title defined by an action. It has no connection to why the action was chosen. A person screwing someone who they legitimately thought was 20, but was actually 17 is by definition a pedophile. But the reason why they did it is very likely different than someone who had sex with a 13 year old and knew it.

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          No, action does not make someone a pedophile. An adult sleeping with an assumed adult to learn they are 17 is not a pedophile. It is potentially statutory rape, though, depending on circumstances.

          Sexual attraction to children, e.g. this woman, is a pedophile.

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          Please try a dictionary. The literal only definition of that word is someone who is sexually attracted to pre-pubescent children. It has nothing to do at all with actions.

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            My mistake on the definition. I was looking more for the phycological underlying reason for that attraction. Unless you are saying a person is just born that way, and it isn’t thier fault or something.

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              I’d argue that yes, they are born that way and their attraction isn’t necessarily their fault. I’d also say they should have therapy, not be allowed around children, and if they harm anyone they need to be put in prison soooooo…what’s your point here?

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                My original question was to try an understand the underlying cause. This might help me better assess the risks of people like my kids friends parents and such. My end goal is prevention. But I am also curious by nature. The better I understand things, the better a voter I am.

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      A woman abuses a boy and the first thing you do is use it as a gotcha moment against… who, exactly? Anyone saying all men or only men, rhetorically, expect you to know if you aren’t part of the problem. So, why so defensive? Just relax, man. No one here was accusing you of anything.

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          The comment is stating that you treated it as a gotcha moment. Which I agree with… I mean, just read your post again.

          This is living proof that NOT ALL MEN COMMIT THESE ACTS!

          Women are perfectly capable of doing the same damn things, they’re just more sly about it and how often are guys going to complain when they get their dick wet or touched by a girl?

          What the other commenter described is exactly what you did. Stating otherwise means you may need to pause and ask yourself, “Am I deluded?”

          Or even better, just ignore us all and reassure yourself that we’re all crazy. That probably feels the best, and we should always just go with what makes us feel good.

          Anyway, just come back and check the vote tallies later if you have any doubt that what I say is the prevailing opinion.

          And of course, if I’m wrong, I’m wrong. Sometimes I am wrong. Are you?

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          They were weirded out by taking a story about sexual abuse and reorienting it towards something about gender. We aren’t sure why you felt the need to do that, though that is common with people who have fallen into certain rabbit holes.

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      how often are guys going to complain when they get their dick wet or touched by a girl?

      fucking gross ass incel pedophilic comment.

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      Are you ok? If something like this happened to you or something, it wasn’t your fault.